SPEED THRILLS BUT KILLS

Yes you might have heard this so many times even I did, but today has been a day which has really taught me the importance of this sentence. The day started at 5 in the morning with a phone call that the bus that my parents are traveling met an accident. Gosh I was immediately worried for them but got respite in sometime that they escaped without even a small scratch .I thank the Gods that I pray daily for this. The day progressed ahead and on work as usual I had to travel on the National Highway -5 ,the same road that I daily travel to and fro ,the same road that I see day in day out as my house is close to the national highway. But today I didn’t find it as amusing as it used to daily, I didn’t find it as proud to be of as I ever used to be……….reason I have seen two people dieing in front of my eyes when an auto they were traveling in was dashed by a lorry . It all happened in a split second ( life changes in a second- the new docomo ad tag is so true ) and there ahead of my vehicle on the road were lying two dead bodies and the whole road was bloodshed ,my heart cried for them …..although I don’t have any idea on who the two victims were, it was a real sad incident that I witnessed and it was reeling in my mind the whole day today.

I request all my friends and people whom I know or who ever reads this blog to please be slow on your vehicles and never risk your life for anything. I prayed to GOD to take care of my friends who daily go on bike to work, who travel in heavy traffics than I do ,for whom I CARE.

Ideal Man

An ideal man for a woman makes you realize you are beautiful. He makes you realize how special you are for him. He guides you like your father when you need him, he soothes you like your brother when you are tired,he supports you completely and truly at all instances.If you are angry on him,he would anything just to see a smile on your face.He makes you realize you are capable ,self-sufficient and succesful.

Above all he makes you realize you are an ideal woman for him........!!

YEH MERA INDIA !!

I will tell you a story. It is the story of a big scientist from America who never used to believe in GOD. One day he came to know that people in INDIA believe in GOD a lot.

So he decided to come to INDIA, visited a lot many places in INDIA and when he returned back to America he straight away went to the church and fell on the feet of Lord Jesus and started praying.

All the people around were amazed by this and started thinking on what happened to the scientist and they were wondering whether he met GOD in INDIA or what. When he came out everyone started asking him on what has happened.

He said ‘NO NO I haven’t met any GOD in INDIA, but I have seen the country very closely and observed a lot many things. INDIA is a very peculiar country. It doesn’t have a single common language which is known to all across the country. There the HINDUS hate the MUSLIM and the Muslims hate the HINDUS. People of the upper caste hate the people from lower caste. People in the city hate people from the village and even I have observed that people in the cars hate people in the autos. There is so much of hatred filled all over the country but still the country is up and running. It is doing a lot of progress. Tell me with so much dissimilarities and stuff if INDIA is progressing this can only be done by GOD, not by a human. This has made me believe that GOD is there .

This is the essence of INDIA ……and am proud to be an INDIAN.

This is a short extract from the movie YEH MERA INDIA, just watch it, you can take my words ,you wont regret .

BEING GOOD........!!

My friend Thousif raza has recently written a blog on Good guys always finish last HERE

It has just reminded me a small short story which my mom used to tell me from when I was a kid. I would like to share that small story with all my readers.

There was once a Rushi doing tapasya in a forest. One fine day in the morning when he went to the nearby pond to have his bath along with his sishya ,he found a scorpion fluttering in the water to survive getting drowned .He felt pity on the poor scorpion and thought of helping it and took a leaf nearby and slowly placed it beneath the scorpion and tried lifting it to safety, once the scorpion reached onto the leaf it tried to bite the hand of the Rushi ,so the Rushi in the process of saving himself left the leaf and the scorpion fell back into the water. The rushi hasn’t given up and again tried the same and when he has lifted the scorpion above the water it again tried to bite his hand and same happened as earlier it again fell back into the water. So the sishya who was with him asked him to abort his saviour act and leave the scorpion to its plight.

But the rushi didn’t heed to his sishya and continued helping the scorpion . After a few more trials somehow the rushi managed to pull the scorpion to safety. The sishya was confused on why the rushi was so stubborn in helping the scorpion and asked the same to him.

For this the rushi started saying like this : “Sishya , scorpion is natured to bite when something comes close to it ,God made it like that and it is doing justification to its nature. It doesn’t have the brain or knowledge to understand what is good and what is bad for it. I am a rushi doing tapasya and I am sure on what is right and what is wrong ,and I always want to do good and be good…..when a animal like it is so stubborn on sticking to its quality, why should I change my quality of being Good for it ? Never change your character of being good for someone elses sake or due to circumstances as being good and doing good is divine.”

This has always been an inspiring story to me and whenever I feel angry on someone who has done bad to me or getting carried away due to circumstances I remember this story.

Coming back to Thousif’s point on being ignored or neglected or not getting the same preference from someone when you are so good and true towards them, remember one thing ……….we are giving care ,if they neglect us and in the process loose us,its always their loss and not ours ,also we are not getting any care in return nor expecting it so we will never be on the loosing end…..so chill dearJ

Happy Birthday mom

If i find words to express how much you love me
I am doing injustice to your love
If i write down what would you do for my happiness
I am going to be writing forever
If I try to think how much you care for me
the word care itself will seem so small
YOU are the best in this world Mom
and none is comparable to you
Happy Birthday MOM
LOVE YOU
CHAITS

The Oy concept Extended !!

People who have seen this recent telugu movie OY might remember the hero siddharth gifting the heroine twelve gifts for her birthday saying he got a gift for every month of the year. It became an instant hit with all the lovers around and one of my friends Mr J (only the first alphabet of his name) who is so truly, deeply, madly in love with this girl

Miss C (only first letter of her name) has gifted her 27 gifts signifying all her 27 birthdays.

Being a poor shopper myself I thought how can one buy so many gifts for a single girl and thought he might have just picked up some random things for her but I was really amazed after a conversation of mine with him regarding the gifts and was really impressed by his selection of gifts and his justification for why he chose them.

Just wanted to share this with people who follow my blog as I really loved it,hope you all also love this : This was our converstation

Chaits : hey J wass up buddy

J : Don’t disturb me dude I am busy packing my gifts I bought for my girl ,will meet u in a couple of days .

Chaits : Gifts ,u mean plural ?

J : yes 27 of them in total ,she is 27 years old now

Chaits : baap re ,how did u manage to buy so many ,can u explain.

Mr .J who was just looking for this opportunity to share his feeling with some one began explaining like this :

1) Birthday Dress: I bought her a dress in which she would look like an angel ……it would make everyone turn around and look at her atleast twice.

2) Musical Candle: Candles are ncie gifts, they say I will give you light although I am burning, it specifies giving and not expecting , I would love this musical candle to be on her birthday cake.

3) Scented candle: A scented candle ,I bought the candle for its fragrance and the lovely quote which goes with it .

4) A musical box : A musical box where in she can keep her things.

5) Ferrero Rochero choclate box : These are the best in the business and I know shes so fond of chocolates.

6) A memento which says “You are worth your height of gold “which is so apt for her.

7) Shes a big fan of sonu nigam ,so I bought her sonu nigal love songs and deewana songs cd.

8) Flower vase: A beautiful flower vase.

9) Jewellery Box : A nice jewellery box where she can store her jewellery.

10) American Diamond Necklace : An awesome looking americal diamond necklace which I think would look best on her.

11) A big Greeting : A greeting can say your hundred feelings ,so bought a wonderful greeting card for her.

12) Laughing Buddha : Some say its lucky ,some say it signifies laughter but I loved it and I feel looking at it cheers up ,so I chose it to be one of the gifts.

13) Perfume : a nice jasmine perfume

14) A mug with teddy in it wishing happy birthday

15) Vodka Bottle : Vodka is her favourite ,but I don’t booze but still I would like to show her that I respect her feelings and likings by gifting her this.

16) Glass set : A set of glasses so that she can have her Vodka in the new ones.

17) A diary : She is environmental conscious so gifted her a diary that’s made of cotton cloth …..also filled with so many love shayari for her.

18) Her laminated sketch : Many people might think of gifting her a photo frame or her photo laminated but I laminated her sketch and gifted her.

19) A personalized coffee mug: A personalized coffee mug with her picture on it and my personal message showing my love towards her.

20) A statue of Radha and Lord Krishna : People say radha Krishna when they speak of love ,I think I love her almost like what Lord Krishna loved radha ,so I am gifting it to her.

21) A big teddy: Girls simply love soft toys and so does my girl ….bought her a big teddy bear which she can hug and sleep and which will remind her of me every moment.

22) Charity : My girl is generous and kind ,I donated amount for a charitable trust for the education of two children for an year in her name and gifting her the receipt .

23) A wind flute : This is a flute which u need not blow ,it makes music when wind passes through it and I know she will love this one.

24) Flowers : A big flower bokay containing all roses .Someone suggested me not to gift her roses and keep a note that “I CANT GIFT A ROSE TO A ROSE” but I decided to gift her all roses with a note “ My rose is more beautiful than the other roses”.

25) 24 karat Gold plated crystal of her sun sign which she is really obsessed with .

26) A nice Black forest cake with loads of chocolate on it and in a heart shape.

27) Finally the best : A big hug which will show how much security my hands give her ,how much warmth my heart has for her ,a cuddle which says I will be there for u no matter what .

I was amazed by his dedication and thinking and idea to do something like this. May be this is what love is all about……………………. Giving .

Am proud of you Mr J .

Thanx

I would like to thank a few of my friends today for what they have been and done for me for the past ten or so days:

VIKRAM : Man you were amazing,thanx for being with me all through and making my dream come true,you are indeed a rockstar and keep rocking,love u dude.

RAGHU : I was amazed seeing you so serious when i was down,never seen you like that man,it made me realize what my happiness meant to you,thanx for being with me at the moment when i was literally down and out.

Keers : This charming girl has got loads of brains and it showed and it helped me a lot. Thanx for having the confidence in me dear ,thanx for everything.

Arpi : U might be wondering what u have done that i am saying thanx to yaa,you are the only one from the list of who four who helped me without even knowing you helped me.......lolz

Will let u know in a couple of days dear. Thanx

LIFE is so beautiful with friends ........and you people have proved this thing once again..love you all,thanx for believing in me and my dreams and helping me out.

chaitanya

I Love You in Hundred Plus Languages !!

Some people dont even say it in a single language.........for them to learn which language they feel comfortable .

1 Indian English - 143

2 English - I love you

3 Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief

4 Albanian - Te dua

5 Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)

6 Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)

7 Armenian - Yes kez sirumen

8 Bambara - M'bi fe

9 Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi

10 Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu

11 Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo

12 Bulgarian - Obicham te

13 Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah

14 Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a

15 Catalan - T'estimo

16 Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse

17 Chichewa - Ndimakukonda

18 Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)

19 Creol - Mi aime jou

20 Croatian - Volim te

21 Czech - Miluji te

22 Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig

23 Dutch - Ik hou van jou

24 Esperanto - Mi amas vin

25 Estonian - Ma armastan sind

26 Ethiopian - Afgreki'

27 Faroese - Eg elski teg

28 Farsi - Doset daram

29 Filipino - Mahal kita

30 Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua

31 French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore

32 Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort

33 Georgian - Mikvarhar

34 German - Ich liebe dich

35 Greek - S'agapo

36 Gujarati - Hu tane prem karoo chhoo

37 Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw

38 Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi

39 Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)

40 Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)

41 Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw

42 Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hai

43 Hmong - Kuv hlub koj

44 Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta

45 Hungarian - Szeretlek

46 Icelandic - Eg elska tig

47 Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw

48 Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu

49 Inuit - Negligevapse

50 Irish - Taim i' ngra leat

51 Italian - Ti amo

52 Japanese - Aishiteru

53 Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene

54 Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka

55 Kiswahili - Nakupenda

56 Konkani - Tu magel moga cho

57 Korean - Sarang Heyo

58 Latin - Te amo

59 Latvian - Es tevi miilu

60 Lebanese - Bahibak

61 Lithuanian - Tave myliu

62 Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu

63 Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu

64 Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni

65 Marathi - Me tula prem karto

66 Mohawk - Kanbhik

67 Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik

68 Nahuatl - Ni mits neki

69 Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni

70 Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg

71 Pandacan - Syota na kita!!

72 Pangasinan - Inaru Taka

73 Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo

74 Persian - Doo-set daaram

75 Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay

76 Polish - Kocham Ciebie

77 Portuguese - Eu te amo

78 Romanian - Te ubesk

79 Roman Numerals - 333

80 Russian - Ya tebya liubliu

81 Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort

82 Serbian - Volim te

83 Setswana - Ke a go rata

84 Sign Language - (represents position of fingers when signing'I Love You')

85 Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan

86 Sioux - Techihhila

87 Slovak - Lu`bim ta

88 Slovenian - Ljubim te

89 Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo

90 Swahili - Ninapenda wewe

91 Swedish - Jag alskar dig

92 Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di

93 Tagalog - Mahal kita

94 Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li

95 Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe

96 Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen

97 Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu

98 Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)

99 Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)

100 Turkish - Seni Seviyorum

101 Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu

102 Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

103 Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)

104 Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)

105 Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu

106 Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh

107 Yoruba - Mo ni fe..e...

इन दिनों

इन दिनों
कहने को दोस्तों के मेले हैं,
पर इन दिनों वाकई हम अकेले हैं.
क्या बताएं क्यों प्यार होता नहीं हमसे
ज़िन्दगी में और भी तो झमेले हैं
तेरे हर दांव की है मुझको खबर,
खेल ये मैंने भी बहुत खेले हैं.
न जाने किस बात पर घंटों रोये
वैसे तो हँसते हुए ज़ख्म झेले हैं
तू क्यों फिक्र करता है मेरे ग़म की,
दुःख दर्द तो बरसों से मेरे चेले हैं

दोस्ती !!

भरम पाला था मैने प्यार दो तो प्यार मिलता है ।

यहाँ मतलब के सब मारे न सच्चा यार मिलता है ।

लुटा दो जां भले अपनी न छोड़ें खून पी लेंगे,

जिसे देखो छुपा के हाथ में तलवार मिलता है ।

बहा लो देखकर आँसू न जग में पोंछता कोई,

दिखा दो अश्क दुनिया को तो बस धिक्कार मिलता है ।

नही मै चाहता दुनिया मुझे अब थोड़ा जीने दो,

मिटाकर खुद को देखो तो भी बस अंगार मिलता है ।

मै पागल हूँ जो दुनिया में सभी को अपना कहता हूँ,

खफा यह मुझसे हैं उनका मुझे दीदार मिलता है ।

मुखौटा देख लो पहना यहाँ हर आदमी नकली

डराना दूसरे को हो सदा तैयार मिलता है

All credit to my friend Vaibhav Dubey whose an awesome shayar!!

SLEEPING BEAUTY

I am in LOVE with a girl

who can melt you not by looking at you

but by compelling you to look at her

She has got hundreds of different smiles

her smiles can make you laugh

her smiles can make you fall

her smiles can leave a long lasting impression on your heart!!

U know whats the best time to look at her ?

when she is sleeping

I tried and i came to know what the term

"SLEEPING BEAUTY" really means......!!

Something Nice .......

Never sleep on an angry word.

Never make the other feel absurd.

Always believe in each other's dreams.

Keep communication flowing like a stream.

Speak to each other with a tender heart.

Remember each day how you felt at the start.

Treat each other with kindness and respect.

Love grows only with care not neglect.

Never forget a special day.

Never miss a chance to say,

All the good things that you feel,

A loving kiss can always heal.

Desire should make you swoon,

Each and everyday should be a honeymoon.

Nothing can ever be more important than your lover.

Never give a passionate thought to any other.

To make love last for all eternity,

The "ME" must become "WE".

When your heart is full of affection,

Love will always know the right direction.

IS THIS LOVE ?

Another incident where a girl is victim of love. Yesterday ,In Hyderabad a guy pushed his lover from charminar in front of thousands of people and is able to escape from the place and the police are not yet in a position to catch him. When we have a woman leading the home department, is this the sort of thing we expect from the police?

I strictly condemn this and I feel such people who cheat in the name of love should be hanged to death mercilessly. All the human right people who come down when such a person is caught and plead for his rights,will u people do the same if the victim happens to be your relative or someone close to u.

All this Fuc*ers who commit such deeds are tarnishing the word LOVE which is so divine . Just for the sake of money or sex or some personal agenda these people use the fashionable word LOVE and poor girls they always fall pray to such idiots.

If you visit the missionaries of charity ,kolkatta ,you will find this…….

Yes indeed ,true love means surrender. Surrendering your personal agendas, your personal likes, dislikes just to see happiness in your love’s eyes.It means doing anything for your love without being selfish.

Hope such acts don’t repeat and strict actions are taken against people who commit such acts.

Chaits

The train that went backwards!!

Yes u heard it right, I saw such a scene on celluloid in one of the greatest movies of our favourite thigh slapping star BALKRISSNaaaaaaaaaa ‘s movie PALNATI BRAHMA NAIDU…..where the train simply goes backwards defying all logic and newtons laws when Balki slaps his tigh……..gosh ,now let me not remember this ,if not I will be rolling on the floor laughing the whole day.

         Now coming to the point recently I was on board a train that was running from Tirupati to bilaspur …..the journey was ok for a couple of hours when all of a sudden the train stopped at one place and then started moving back as it saw something bad in front. All the people in the train were confused on what was happening and none had a clue, people were giving their own ideas on what might have happened:

 Some said the gear lever got stuck in reverse gear :mad:

Some said the train is over loaded and since it’s a slope the train is going back :eek: (people are crazy)

Some said it’s the effect of black magic done by lalu as he lost railway ministry :banghead:

Some even said there is Bal kriss naaaa standing in front of the train so the train is running backwards……….lol

People are so different and everyone has got an opinion what to do………but the actual problem was with the track and it was great for all of us that it was noticed prior and the train sent backwards to the nearest station where it was halted for a couple of hours and we were sent on another track .

     The estimated time of journey initially was 14 hours and it took a total of 22 hours for me to reach my hometown Visakhapatnam…….but no complaints as why would u complaint when you are sitting in the comforts of AC and having beautiful girls and aunties in your company, playing cards with you and sharing their food with you. I had a blast in the whole journey and I can say any other day without all those comforts this would have been the worst journey that I ever did .

I LOVE YOU !!

You are an angel

You made my life

You guide me through rough and fair

You strive to get me everything i ever want

You are a charm to me

Your love towards me is so true

You love towards me is unselfish

You are so precious to me

You mean the life to me

I LOVE YOU More than anyone else in this world

I LOVE YOU MOM!!!

Vizag in rain!!

              

                             Most of the people might be knowing about the scenic beauties of visakhapatnam,if not please refer to some website about the natural scenics of this beautiful place also known as vizag, am so happy and feel its a blessing for me to be brought up at visakhapatnam and i feel its almost like my native place and i am more than attached to this wonderful place.

         It has happened so many times earlier but still somehow today i felt like sharing my experience driving and drenching my self in the rain in vizag.I have this habit of going out for a drive along the beach road whenever it rains,it gives me a great deal of pleasure which i cannot explain with any words. One side you wil see the sea roaring ,the cloud cover all along the sky,rain drops coming down hard and touching you some times,the rain water that splashes when any vehicle goes .............somehow i like to do this each time it rains.

           Today it so happened that i had to go to the railway station to give sendoff to someone whose leaving to hyderabad.....and it started raining all of a sudden,so i said sayonara to them,and ran back to my car,meanwhile i was drenched totally,took my car and made my way towards the beach road for a ride..........slowly the rain became heavy and i could feel the splashing sound of water droplets getting louder and louder on my car roof.........went to the beach,parked the car facing the beach,came out and sat on the bonet watching the roaring sea just in front of me and the rain drops coming down on me............wow this was so nice.

        I remembered a dialogue from one of the recent telugu movies where the protagonist says "God has given a lot of beautiful things in nature and its we who stopped enjoying them and becoming over cautious and spending most of the times unnaturally".............How true!!

   This lasted for some fifteen minutes before the rain stopped and drove back home.........this thing might seem small to people reading,but i must tell you the sort of tensions and mental pressure i have due to workload gets releived and gives me a soothing effect,so i enjoy this a lot.

People who work day in day out,try these small things like enjoying yourselves in rain like you did when you were young........i promise you will start following it a lot more.

P.S The above tip is for people who are of normal good health,not for weak people who cant even resist a rain .

cheers

chaits

"I " VS "we"

I laugh with u

I fight with u

I see happiness in your happiness

I pray for all the best things in the world for u

 

I cherish every moment I spent with u

I love u more than what u love yourself

I would feel it’s a pleasure of mine to be with u when u are in need of me

I don’t mind fighting the whole world by taking your side

 

When I read all the above lines I just see “I” instead of “we”

And your “we” doesn’t include me………it hurts but

I still Love you the same………… more than anyone…….!!

 

 

dil kaa haal ......

नाम  तुम्हारा होटों पे 

चेहरा तुम्हारा इस दिल में 

लिए हमेशा  घूमते है 

हम भरे महफिल में !!

              दिल देना कोई हमसे सीखे 

              दिल तोड़ना कोई तुमसे सीखे 

               जितनी वफायें हमने तुमसे की है 

               उतनी खताएं हमने आपसे पायी है 

नफरत के बदले नफरत और 

प्यार के बदले भी नफरत ये कैसी संसार है 

               

               पत्थर दिल वालों के इस खेलसे 

                दिल वालों की बुरी हाल है !!

mana desa prastuta chitram !!

విలువలు లేని ఈ ప్రపంచం లో 

                                     విష సర్పాల నీలి నీడలలో

ధనమే కదా అన్నింటికీ మూలం 

                                    పేద వాని కెక్కడిది న్యాయం 

పేద రైతులకు అన్నం లేదు 

                                  క్షుద్బాధకు మోక్షం లేదు 

ఎటు చూసినా అన్యాయం 

                              అయినది కంచు కోటలా దుర్భేధ్యం 

వికసించాలి కొత్త సూరీడు 

                             పార ద్రోలాలి పాత చీకట్లు 

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