SPEED THRILLS BUT KILLS

Yes you might have heard this so many times even I did, but today has been a day which has really taught me the importance of this sentence. The day started at 5 in the morning with a phone call that the bus that my parents are traveling met an accident. Gosh I was immediately worried for them but got respite in sometime that they escaped without even a small scratch .I thank the Gods that I pray daily for this. The day progressed ahead and on work as usual I had to travel on the National Highway -5 ,the same road that I daily travel to and fro ,the same road that I see day in day out as my house is close to the national highway. But today I didn’t find it as amusing as it used to daily, I didn’t find it as proud to be of as I ever used to be……….reason I have seen two people dieing in front of my eyes when an auto they were traveling in was dashed by a lorry . It all happened in a split second ( life changes in a second- the new docomo ad tag is so true ) and there ahead of my vehicle on the road were lying two dead bodies and the whole road was bloodshed ,my heart cried for them …..although I don’t have any idea on who the two victims were, it was a real sad incident that I witnessed and it was reeling in my mind the whole day today.

I request all my friends and people whom I know or who ever reads this blog to please be slow on your vehicles and never risk your life for anything. I prayed to GOD to take care of my friends who daily go on bike to work, who travel in heavy traffics than I do ,for whom I CARE.

Ideal Man

An ideal man for a woman makes you realize you are beautiful. He makes you realize how special you are for him. He guides you like your father when you need him, he soothes you like your brother when you are tired,he supports you completely and truly at all instances.If you are angry on him,he would anything just to see a smile on your face.He makes you realize you are capable ,self-sufficient and succesful.

Above all he makes you realize you are an ideal woman for him........!!

YEH MERA INDIA !!

I will tell you a story. It is the story of a big scientist from America who never used to believe in GOD. One day he came to know that people in INDIA believe in GOD a lot.

So he decided to come to INDIA, visited a lot many places in INDIA and when he returned back to America he straight away went to the church and fell on the feet of Lord Jesus and started praying.

All the people around were amazed by this and started thinking on what happened to the scientist and they were wondering whether he met GOD in INDIA or what. When he came out everyone started asking him on what has happened.

He said ‘NO NO I haven’t met any GOD in INDIA, but I have seen the country very closely and observed a lot many things. INDIA is a very peculiar country. It doesn’t have a single common language which is known to all across the country. There the HINDUS hate the MUSLIM and the Muslims hate the HINDUS. People of the upper caste hate the people from lower caste. People in the city hate people from the village and even I have observed that people in the cars hate people in the autos. There is so much of hatred filled all over the country but still the country is up and running. It is doing a lot of progress. Tell me with so much dissimilarities and stuff if INDIA is progressing this can only be done by GOD, not by a human. This has made me believe that GOD is there .

This is the essence of INDIA ……and am proud to be an INDIAN.

This is a short extract from the movie YEH MERA INDIA, just watch it, you can take my words ,you wont regret .

BEING GOOD........!!

My friend Thousif raza has recently written a blog on Good guys always finish last HERE

It has just reminded me a small short story which my mom used to tell me from when I was a kid. I would like to share that small story with all my readers.

There was once a Rushi doing tapasya in a forest. One fine day in the morning when he went to the nearby pond to have his bath along with his sishya ,he found a scorpion fluttering in the water to survive getting drowned .He felt pity on the poor scorpion and thought of helping it and took a leaf nearby and slowly placed it beneath the scorpion and tried lifting it to safety, once the scorpion reached onto the leaf it tried to bite the hand of the Rushi ,so the Rushi in the process of saving himself left the leaf and the scorpion fell back into the water. The rushi hasn’t given up and again tried the same and when he has lifted the scorpion above the water it again tried to bite his hand and same happened as earlier it again fell back into the water. So the sishya who was with him asked him to abort his saviour act and leave the scorpion to its plight.

But the rushi didn’t heed to his sishya and continued helping the scorpion . After a few more trials somehow the rushi managed to pull the scorpion to safety. The sishya was confused on why the rushi was so stubborn in helping the scorpion and asked the same to him.

For this the rushi started saying like this : “Sishya , scorpion is natured to bite when something comes close to it ,God made it like that and it is doing justification to its nature. It doesn’t have the brain or knowledge to understand what is good and what is bad for it. I am a rushi doing tapasya and I am sure on what is right and what is wrong ,and I always want to do good and be good…..when a animal like it is so stubborn on sticking to its quality, why should I change my quality of being Good for it ? Never change your character of being good for someone elses sake or due to circumstances as being good and doing good is divine.”

This has always been an inspiring story to me and whenever I feel angry on someone who has done bad to me or getting carried away due to circumstances I remember this story.

Coming back to Thousif’s point on being ignored or neglected or not getting the same preference from someone when you are so good and true towards them, remember one thing ……….we are giving care ,if they neglect us and in the process loose us,its always their loss and not ours ,also we are not getting any care in return nor expecting it so we will never be on the loosing end…..so chill dearJ

Happy Birthday mom

If i find words to express how much you love me
I am doing injustice to your love
If i write down what would you do for my happiness
I am going to be writing forever
If I try to think how much you care for me
the word care itself will seem so small
YOU are the best in this world Mom
and none is comparable to you
Happy Birthday MOM
LOVE YOU
CHAITS

The Oy concept Extended !!

People who have seen this recent telugu movie OY might remember the hero siddharth gifting the heroine twelve gifts for her birthday saying he got a gift for every month of the year. It became an instant hit with all the lovers around and one of my friends Mr J (only the first alphabet of his name) who is so truly, deeply, madly in love with this girl

Miss C (only first letter of her name) has gifted her 27 gifts signifying all her 27 birthdays.

Being a poor shopper myself I thought how can one buy so many gifts for a single girl and thought he might have just picked up some random things for her but I was really amazed after a conversation of mine with him regarding the gifts and was really impressed by his selection of gifts and his justification for why he chose them.

Just wanted to share this with people who follow my blog as I really loved it,hope you all also love this : This was our converstation

Chaits : hey J wass up buddy

J : Don’t disturb me dude I am busy packing my gifts I bought for my girl ,will meet u in a couple of days .

Chaits : Gifts ,u mean plural ?

J : yes 27 of them in total ,she is 27 years old now

Chaits : baap re ,how did u manage to buy so many ,can u explain.

Mr .J who was just looking for this opportunity to share his feeling with some one began explaining like this :

1) Birthday Dress: I bought her a dress in which she would look like an angel ……it would make everyone turn around and look at her atleast twice.

2) Musical Candle: Candles are ncie gifts, they say I will give you light although I am burning, it specifies giving and not expecting , I would love this musical candle to be on her birthday cake.

3) Scented candle: A scented candle ,I bought the candle for its fragrance and the lovely quote which goes with it .

4) A musical box : A musical box where in she can keep her things.

5) Ferrero Rochero choclate box : These are the best in the business and I know shes so fond of chocolates.

6) A memento which says “You are worth your height of gold “which is so apt for her.

7) Shes a big fan of sonu nigam ,so I bought her sonu nigal love songs and deewana songs cd.

8) Flower vase: A beautiful flower vase.

9) Jewellery Box : A nice jewellery box where she can store her jewellery.

10) American Diamond Necklace : An awesome looking americal diamond necklace which I think would look best on her.

11) A big Greeting : A greeting can say your hundred feelings ,so bought a wonderful greeting card for her.

12) Laughing Buddha : Some say its lucky ,some say it signifies laughter but I loved it and I feel looking at it cheers up ,so I chose it to be one of the gifts.

13) Perfume : a nice jasmine perfume

14) A mug with teddy in it wishing happy birthday

15) Vodka Bottle : Vodka is her favourite ,but I don’t booze but still I would like to show her that I respect her feelings and likings by gifting her this.

16) Glass set : A set of glasses so that she can have her Vodka in the new ones.

17) A diary : She is environmental conscious so gifted her a diary that’s made of cotton cloth …..also filled with so many love shayari for her.

18) Her laminated sketch : Many people might think of gifting her a photo frame or her photo laminated but I laminated her sketch and gifted her.

19) A personalized coffee mug: A personalized coffee mug with her picture on it and my personal message showing my love towards her.

20) A statue of Radha and Lord Krishna : People say radha Krishna when they speak of love ,I think I love her almost like what Lord Krishna loved radha ,so I am gifting it to her.

21) A big teddy: Girls simply love soft toys and so does my girl ….bought her a big teddy bear which she can hug and sleep and which will remind her of me every moment.

22) Charity : My girl is generous and kind ,I donated amount for a charitable trust for the education of two children for an year in her name and gifting her the receipt .

23) A wind flute : This is a flute which u need not blow ,it makes music when wind passes through it and I know she will love this one.

24) Flowers : A big flower bokay containing all roses .Someone suggested me not to gift her roses and keep a note that “I CANT GIFT A ROSE TO A ROSE” but I decided to gift her all roses with a note “ My rose is more beautiful than the other roses”.

25) 24 karat Gold plated crystal of her sun sign which she is really obsessed with .

26) A nice Black forest cake with loads of chocolate on it and in a heart shape.

27) Finally the best : A big hug which will show how much security my hands give her ,how much warmth my heart has for her ,a cuddle which says I will be there for u no matter what .

I was amazed by his dedication and thinking and idea to do something like this. May be this is what love is all about……………………. Giving .

Am proud of you Mr J .

Thanx

I would like to thank a few of my friends today for what they have been and done for me for the past ten or so days:

VIKRAM : Man you were amazing,thanx for being with me all through and making my dream come true,you are indeed a rockstar and keep rocking,love u dude.

RAGHU : I was amazed seeing you so serious when i was down,never seen you like that man,it made me realize what my happiness meant to you,thanx for being with me at the moment when i was literally down and out.

Keers : This charming girl has got loads of brains and it showed and it helped me a lot. Thanx for having the confidence in me dear ,thanx for everything.

Arpi : U might be wondering what u have done that i am saying thanx to yaa,you are the only one from the list of who four who helped me without even knowing you helped me.......lolz

Will let u know in a couple of days dear. Thanx

LIFE is so beautiful with friends ........and you people have proved this thing once again..love you all,thanx for believing in me and my dreams and helping me out.

chaitanya