Stay forever in my heart......!!

Excellent are the days when we are together
and enjoy our small get-together...
Togetherness is what matters...
otherwise the relationship shatters..
But togetherness is not physical..
it is more pertaining to the mind...
The heart speaks and not the body ...
and thats what binds everybody..
Let us accept this reality...
and retain our love and relationship fertility...
Let us enjoy and never part...
stay forever in my heart.......stay forever in my heart.......!!

Reduce Your ECO Foot Prints !!

You might be thinking whats this all of a sudden......today 5 th JUNE is observed as the world Environmental Day and i felt its maa duty to put something which if atleast a few people realise and follow it would do good to the process of saving our mother EARTH. We ,saying we i refer to the present generation must feel so happy that we have seen a bit of natural events like rains and sun and snow etc etc the greatest wonders that GOD gave us,but we should also feel bad that our coming generations might not be as lucky as we are as the whole Ecological balance is under threat. It has come to such a stage that unless we take care of the ENVIRONMENT today we might just be doing no good to our coming generations, Its not what technology we are going to create for our generations,its not what economy that we create for our generations but its what sort of natural Environment we can provide for our coming generations is that matters.

So on this environmental day lets discuss what few things we can do to save mother EARTH :

1) Replace regular light bulbs with compact fluorescent light (CFL) bulbs.

2) Reduce waste by reuse and recycle.

3) USE LESS AIR-CONDITIONING.

4) DRIVE SMART : make sure your car is running efficiently,Every gallon of fuel you save not only helps your budget, it also keeps 20 pounds of carbon dioxide out of the atmosphere.

5) Use the "OFF" switch

6) Atlease everyone Plant one Tree.

7) Buy organic foods as much as possible

8) Unplug Un-Used Electronics

9) Ditch the Plastic

10) The most important : SAVE WATER

These are just a few things which we can implement in order to give our coming generations a safer and better place to live at i.e our mother EARTH.

What is LOVE?

Probably the toughest question ever been answered by anyone. From ages many answers have been coming for this seemingly simple question…….but what is the exact answer? Time and again many people have tried to give their own definitions for this simple four letter word LOVE….but what I feel is Love cannot be described as it is something which cannot be bound with a few words, it is a feeling that has to be felt and experienced .

There are only three relationships in this world who can do anything for you without any expectation.

1) Your Mother :She’s the best ,no matter you are poor, you are ugly ,you are handicapped what stands out anytime in any situation is mothers love and no match to it.
2) Your Father: Who is the reason for you being in this world .
3) Your True Love( R ) : Someone who loves you sincerely and truly.

Many people think of other relations like brother, sister, friend, best friend etc but all these relations they can stand for you up to an extent only, after that extent what comes in-between is their loved ones or their family. I don’t say that this is a generalized statement but in most cases around 95 % this one would hold good.

When I say Love what was the need for me to add a prefix true to it ???? Because now a days people are killing in the name of Love.

Check this link http://www.linkingpeopletogether.com/?p=949

can this be termed as love ? I don’t think so and definitely this is not LOVE.

Love means trust. Love means being there for your companion in all situations ,No matter the whole world turns against you, still being with your loved ones and fighting all odds out that’s the sort of courage that love imparts and ignites in ones self,but not the sort of foolishness to kill the person or hurt the person whom u say u are in love with.
Who should be blamed for all this situation ?

Movies ? The easiest target for everyone on this front is Movies…….but our movies are the only cause for this ?

No…………its also on the front of a boys and girls, the mistake lies with both of them.
Penning down some points which I feel people should realize:

BOYS : The main thing a boy should learn is the usp of the word I LOVE YOU………it says I love you but it doesn’t put any condition that the opposite person should also respond to it in an equivalent manner. Try to face the rejection with honour , Love happens and its not in our hands to control it ,but going overboard and taunting the girl etc, these things are in our own hands, these things are no good for any society and for yourself and your family also,so face the rejection in an honourable manner. Its no disgrace being rejected,it’s the misfortune of the girl for missing your love.

Girls: There is a dialogue in one of the recent telugu movie that is releasing which goes like this “ Mee aadavallanthaa inthey , dabbunu chusi premistaaru kaani manasuni chusi premincharu,mosam cheyyadam ledaa mosa povatam anthey kaani preminchadam maatram teleedu” . I feel its so apt and true for the present scenario. For people who cant understand telugu what the dialogue means is :
“ Sab ladkiyaan aise hee hoti hai,paisa dekh ke pyaar karti hai naa ke dil,dhoka denaa yaa dhokaa khaanaa hee aata hai lekin pyaar karnaa nahin “. This is what I am seeing in most of the cases.Many of the girls these days are having this attitude of “Bill tumhaara –thrill hamaara” . Telling you this is the worst attitude and its gonna backfire on you someday.

Girls please don’t fall in for a guy for his money or for his showoffs, try seeing and learning the innerself of a guy,When ever a guy truly loves you it shows in his eyes,there will always be a special sort of glitter in his eyes when you are in front of him. And for God’s sake never loose a person who truly loves you.


For People who are already in LOVE :
Its the hardest thing to get the love of the person whom you also LOVE and since you have already got it try to have it for the remaining life rather than loosing it for some silly ego problems and reasons.
When two of you are in love,you both constitute a single entity and don’t let rise to any ego feelings of your partner being more famous than you or more popular than you,be proud of the fact that such a famous and successful entity loves you and try respecting this fact. Another problem that arises is the problem of being possessive or to say over possessive…….this is a tough situation and it needs to be very carefully handled by the pair in love,better they talk through it and by respecting some points put forward by your parter this one can be solved. Happiness the main thing that anyone requires in this world,try learning what things give happiness to your loved ones even they can be very trivial and try doing those,respect the views and opinions of your partner,if you need to correct them at sometime do it in a polite manner rather than being offensive. Spread your love and get love from your partner as well.

As I said Love means standing for your beloved ones and fighting the whole world for them……let me quote an example from the recent news bulletin of Times of India which shows what love is all about and what courage love gives: Read it as below :


AHMEDABAD: They met on a passenger train, while travelling together every morning from home in Viramgam to work in Ahmedabad and back in the evening. They fell in love, got married and have embarked on a journey of life that dares the jaws of death!

This is the love story of Rajiv, a healthy young man, and Dipali a widow with two kids. She is also HIV-positive. She says that after marriage, she falls ill less often.A couple of years ago, Dipali's first husband, a driver, was admitted to hospital with a terminal illness. The illness was diagnosed as AIDS and Dipali was asked to undergo a test as well. The result turned out to be as expected — Dipali was HIV-positive.

Dipali, her husband and two children were shunted off to a separate floor of the house and treated as untouchables by her in-laws. All hell broke loose when Dipali's husband died. Her in-laws started taunting her, beating her up, wishing she would leave.

It is then that Dipali started work with 'Adhaar', an agency working with HIV-positive people in Ahmedabad. She would take the Viramgam local every morning at 7.30, just like Rajiv, a supervisor at a shirt manufacturing unit. The journeys together got them talking and Dipali shared her travails with Rajiv. Friendship bloomed into love and one day, when Dipali was beaten black and blue by her in-laws, Dipali shared with Rajiv her only option - to leave for Mumbai to get into prostitution for which a pimp had offered to pay Rs 1.5 lakh. "I proposed to her, asking her to ditch her unhappy life and be happy with me. I knew she was HIV-positive but that didn't make any difference. We all have to die one day," says Rajiv. Today, Dipali is a happy homemaker living with Rajiv and her elder son - the younger one stays with her in-laws. Asked Rajiv if he ever fears contracting the virus, he says, "We are careful and I get myself tested every six months. But if I do, I will accept it as a gift of love from my wife."

Source : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Cities/His_love_is_blind__HIV-positive/articleshow/3037976.cms

I feel it has been a lengthy blog but I feel more can be written on this topic……so feel free to add any points that you feel would be good to this topic.Finally closing it wih this line : LOVE IS A FRIENDSHIP SET TO MUSIC : so hit the right chords and enjoy the soothing music of LOVE.

Life is a commitment!!

Huh .........u might be wondering why i decided to write this blog.

I decided to write this blog because someone convinced me on the importance of having commitments in life......i was a guy who was afraid of commitments......until very recently,but i realised life in every mode is a commitment,so why be afraid of commitments when the total life itself is a big commitment.
We are born and our parents have taken care of us ,they gave us shelter,good food,they taught us good manners,gave us good education,all this is the love they have showered upon us and its a commitment in a way that they have fulfilled.Infact there are so many commitments in life although they might be spanned for a shorter time,like say we call an auto and ask him to take us to a place or say our office.......its an oral commitment that he will take us to that place and we will pay him whatever fare that it takes.
Infact the job that we do is also a commitment.......right,we are working for the sake or on the commitment that we will get some money at the end of the month and the employer takes a commitment from us that we will serve him all through the month.

Not intending to bore anyone buy just shedding some feelings of mine,these may not be important for everyone but there are people in this world like me,who dont like commitments,may be this blog will just make them think a second,thats enough.

cheers
waiting for some opposing comments(if any).
chaitanya

Who needs to be blamed ?

It has been a long time since i have updated this blog.....these days dont have much time to do.Today due to the 95th Science Congress thats being held in my town all the roads are blocked and so am foredly sitting down at home ,so thought of updating the blogs.

Btw wishing one and all who visit this blog a very very happy and prosperous New year 2008 ,May this new year bring to you all the happiness that you ever wanted in your life.

When the whole world was busy celebrating the New year ocassion ,this new year has left some bad memories for the two girls you see in the above picture.Most of you might have read about the incident already in the news papers and the never ending chat shows on this matter on the numerous news channels on tv. But who is to be blamed for this event ?

1) The men who behaved nothing less than animals.

2) The Police for not being able to cope up with the situation when a similar incident happened the year before.

3) The alchohol that has turned these men into animals.

or like some orthodox people who say that girls roaming around in the night what should they expect?

This will be an argument that will never come to an end as there will be different sects of people with different mind sets .

I feel its the mistake of all the above listed things together,its the collective effort of all the above and no single thing can be blamed.

we have to blame our society first for putting different set of guidelines for men and women, we have to blame the effect of alchohol which makes any person insane,we have to blame the police for their failure in handling such cases and blame the men involved in this as this has really been a shameful incident which has shocked the whole of INDIA.

But blaming will do any good ? no,such incidents have to evoke some moral responsibilities in all the people and they should refrain themselves and see that such things doesnt take place again,Women are to be respected and this society is a collective effort of both the men and women and when they respect each other than no such events will occur. Just give it a thought and we all can change the face of INDIA.

P.S : As i said people have different frames of mind,i used to have a friend who happens to be a girl and she used to tell me not to go to second show movies,she used to say its dangerous and she used to say she never goes for a second show movie as she feels its not safe ,i used to argue with her on freedom to be given to women and stuff,now seems she listened to me and is only going for second show movies and roaming around the city till night 3 or 4,after seeing such incidents i am worried about her and wish i never argued with her about this thing.Take care my dear friend.

Chirutha-------Telugu movie review

Movie Name : Chirutha
Cast: Ram Charan Teja, Neha Sharma, Asish Vidyardhi, Prakash Raj, Ali, Dharmavarapu, Brahmanandam, MS Narayana, Surya, Sayaji Shinde etc
story - screenplay - dialogues - direction: Puri Jagan
Music : Mani Sharma

How close is the movie to being perfect : 5/10

Chirutha one of the much awaited movies this year as it launches RAM CHARAN TEJA ,the son of mega star chiranjeevi falls flat with lack of proper story but whatever holds noticable is the way charan has been shown and his antics which are almost close to perfect. I feel he is a true asset to the telugu film industry and with some improvement he can reach the heights his father has already reached.
Puri jagan has given hits like pokiri earlier and the expectations from this movie were nothing less ,but he lacked and faltered on some basic aspects which is very astonishing,the main thing for a movie is story and puri was so much engrossed in showing and exploiting the talents of charan that he forgot the basic thing,people feel dragged and bored as they dont see the movie moving ahead and just what coming up at you are songs and songs and more songs which i feel except a couple are utter waste.
Mani sharma somehow has got this knack of giving subsidary or a low class music (in comparision to his big hits) to major heroes like chiranjeevi and bala krishna,and he once again does it to charan.Its not that the songs are bad but they just dont go along with the movie barring the song of Karunya which i feel karunya has sung out of his skin and is a very nice one.
Also the editing work needs to be scritinized as the placement of songs goes awry with songs popping up at times when they are least expected.
Not everything in this movie is bad though..........now coming to some noteworthy points :
1) Ram charan teja.............can surely come as one of the most promising debuts by anyone,he has simply done everything that even seasoned actors fail to do in their 30 th or 40 th movie. He danced with flair and his fights are simple amazing,he has got good body language and his eyes are powerful to emote expressions themselves. Although i felt the first few dialogues said by him in the movie need to be improved by the end of the movie he lets you know his dialogue delivery skills as well .He has entered the movie field at a proper stage and he has good skills to portray both mass characters as well as lover boy characters. I feel sky is only the limit for this young lad .
2)Puri Jagan......................although he disappoints overall there are some finer aspects which you can only associate with a puri jagan film,mainly the way all the fights are conceived,how he exploited the talents of the debutant hero,for being able to think a character like that of the heroine and being bold enough to show it on screen as the heroines character is not the normal telugu film heroines character.
3) Neha Sharma .....................the heroine of the movie,not so great looking,i initially felt why was this girl chosen..........but as the movie goes ahead and the characterization of the heroine comes in front of the audience,i felt she did a commendable job. Its easy to portray the character which is lovable by all,but its very difficult to do something which most of the people would hate and although many people didnt like the heroine i feel she needs to be given some credit for carrying that role with ease.
4) Fights........................The fight masters need to be applauded high as all the fights in the movie were terrific and they made or elevated charan to new heights. Charan is only the second hero in recent times who feels very comfortable in fights the other being vishal.

Some scenes and dialogues note worthy from the film :

1) Charan saying about heroine that she was so pretty from far and when she is near he starts hating her for her behaviour and even wants to kill her if possible.
This specific thing shows that only looks are not the main thing and in love knowing the other person and loving him or her for their innerself is very much essential.

2) The conversation between Prakash raj and the heroine is simply lovable and adorable,its something new and prakash raj as usual rocked in the scene.
The dialogue from Prakash raj,"kooturu kante kukka pillani penchukovatam melu" shows the frustration he was in at that point and got good applause in the theatre.

3) Prakash raj saying to charan that people like you who love their mother a lot will even love their wifes,so go and get your wife.
This is another awesome dialogue which got good applause from the audience.

On the whole a film which can and has to be watched for charan and people who go in without any expectations are sure to enjoy the movie.

HAPPY DAYS--TELUGU MOVIE REVIEW

Movie Name : HAPPY DAYS

Cast: Sandesh, Nikhil, Vamsi Krishna, Raahul, Tamanna, Gayatri Rao, Sonia, Monali Chowdary and Kamalinee Mukherjee
Director :Sekhar Kammula
Music:Mickey.j.mayor

How close the movie is to being perfect : 7/10.

This is my first movie review in this blog and i dont wanna go the normal way of explaining the characters and story as many other reviews do,i feel it takes away the impact from a person who watches the movie after reading a review.
Happy days is a typical sekhar kammula film---------yes thats right with only 2 films old before Happy days (in the main stream atleast) sekhar kammula has managed to hit a chord with the emotions of the telugu film audience in such a way that this film can be characterized as a typical sekhar kammula film.The film has a very thin story line as his previous two other films and runs basically on the grip that he has on screenplay and mind you sekhar is a master at this and he has once again come out victorious.
The movie is very heart touching as it deals with some happydays in almost every persons life which will definetely be his or her college days.The days that never come back,the days that give you a nostalogic feeling when you sit idle,the days which bring memories to be cherished.The story starts with the first day college for the main leads and ends with their last day in college the farewell day.It has got all the human emotions that a teenager entering a college goes through and how he matures into a capable person ready to face the challanges of the world outside.
The movie strikes a chord especially with the youth as they can identify themselves in the characters portrayed in the film and also to some people who finsihed their college lifes and are into more purposeful days of their life.It brings us all those good olden days that have gone by and i can assure you that it succeeds in letting us enjoy the beauty of college life once again.

Coming into some technicalities.............the cast chosen for the movie are absolutely pictureperfect and you actually tend to see the character itself but not the actor who has portrayed it.Music by Micky.j.Mayor is almost perfect,full credits to him for giving such soothening music,Arey re Arey re song stads out and also Padam etu......!! Canera work by vijay kumar is commendable.Coming to the artists performances two people stand out raahul who played tyson and Nikhil who played rajesh. Nikhil has impressed with his expressions and his telangaana dialect whereas the character and characterization of tyson are so lovable that we tend to fall in love with the character and i feel raahul has done a great job.The main female lead of the movie is Tamanna and she looks very gorgeous in Langa-Voni and is very pretty and also good with her expressions throughout the movie.Kamalini Mukherjee the lucky charm for sekhar is seen in a guest role in this movie as a glamarous lecrturer and she does a good job with her own dubbing.

Coming to some negative points in this film which prevented it being from a concept perfect:
1)The very weak story line and some scenes are dragged and a bit slow making you get bored .
2)The cricket match between the seniors and juniors defies all logic.
3)The tricks theat tyson does are a bit over dose and hard to digest as they come in a movie from a more realistic director sekhar.
On the whole the movie is a must watch and is pretty much close to being concept perfect.