Life is a commitment!!

Huh .........u might be wondering why i decided to write this blog.

I decided to write this blog because someone convinced me on the importance of having commitments in life......i was a guy who was afraid of commitments......until very recently,but i realised life in every mode is a commitment,so why be afraid of commitments when the total life itself is a big commitment.
We are born and our parents have taken care of us ,they gave us shelter,good food,they taught us good manners,gave us good education,all this is the love they have showered upon us and its a commitment in a way that they have fulfilled.Infact there are so many commitments in life although they might be spanned for a shorter time,like say we call an auto and ask him to take us to a place or say our office.......its an oral commitment that he will take us to that place and we will pay him whatever fare that it takes.
Infact the job that we do is also a commitment.......right,we are working for the sake or on the commitment that we will get some money at the end of the month and the employer takes a commitment from us that we will serve him all through the month.

Not intending to bore anyone buy just shedding some feelings of mine,these may not be important for everyone but there are people in this world like me,who dont like commitments,may be this blog will just make them think a second,thats enough.

cheers
waiting for some opposing comments(if any).
chaitanya

Who needs to be blamed ?

It has been a long time since i have updated this blog.....these days dont have much time to do.Today due to the 95th Science Congress thats being held in my town all the roads are blocked and so am foredly sitting down at home ,so thought of updating the blogs.

Btw wishing one and all who visit this blog a very very happy and prosperous New year 2008 ,May this new year bring to you all the happiness that you ever wanted in your life.

When the whole world was busy celebrating the New year ocassion ,this new year has left some bad memories for the two girls you see in the above picture.Most of you might have read about the incident already in the news papers and the never ending chat shows on this matter on the numerous news channels on tv. But who is to be blamed for this event ?

1) The men who behaved nothing less than animals.

2) The Police for not being able to cope up with the situation when a similar incident happened the year before.

3) The alchohol that has turned these men into animals.

or like some orthodox people who say that girls roaming around in the night what should they expect?

This will be an argument that will never come to an end as there will be different sects of people with different mind sets .

I feel its the mistake of all the above listed things together,its the collective effort of all the above and no single thing can be blamed.

we have to blame our society first for putting different set of guidelines for men and women, we have to blame the effect of alchohol which makes any person insane,we have to blame the police for their failure in handling such cases and blame the men involved in this as this has really been a shameful incident which has shocked the whole of INDIA.

But blaming will do any good ? no,such incidents have to evoke some moral responsibilities in all the people and they should refrain themselves and see that such things doesnt take place again,Women are to be respected and this society is a collective effort of both the men and women and when they respect each other than no such events will occur. Just give it a thought and we all can change the face of INDIA.

P.S : As i said people have different frames of mind,i used to have a friend who happens to be a girl and she used to tell me not to go to second show movies,she used to say its dangerous and she used to say she never goes for a second show movie as she feels its not safe ,i used to argue with her on freedom to be given to women and stuff,now seems she listened to me and is only going for second show movies and roaming around the city till night 3 or 4,after seeing such incidents i am worried about her and wish i never argued with her about this thing.Take care my dear friend.